Q: My beloved boyfriend passed away a few months ago; I want so much to talk with him
A:
Thanks so much for writing to us here at TruthBook with your heartfelt note. TruthBook.com is a website devoted to the teachings of The Urantia Book; I hope that you are a student of the book, as it can be a great source of comfort for you at this difficult time.
I am very sorry to hear about the recent death of your boyfriend; please accept my condolences. It is completely natural that you miss him and miss the times when you could speak freely to him. Fortunately, the loving relationship that you and he shared is eternal, and it will never die; when you pass from this earth you can expect a joyful reunion in the worlds on high. In the meantime, you have your memories of the love and the life that you shared together; this is the way that we keep our loved ones close to us until we see them again. And these memories will always be fresh and comforting. In your quiet prayer times, just remember him – remember happy times, great conversations that you shared, and the loving companionship between the two of you; ask God in prayer for his reassurance that you and your boyfriend will meet again someday.
The Urantia Book is a rich source of information about the life after death – what it means, what happens, where we go and what we do…I encourage you to read Urantia Book teachings on Death, and Life after Death, and also I invite you to enjoy our short flash movie called “After You Die.” I hope that these things will comfort you, knowing that death is not really the end.
Thanks again for your note. I am very sorry for your loss…may God comfort you and bring peace into your heart.