You wrote: My boyfriend died aged 29; will
he wait for me in heaven and can we continue
Thanks so much for
writing your note to us here at TruthBook.
I want to tell you how sorry I am to know
that you lost your boyfriend - and at such a
young age. My sympathies...I pray that you are
managing life without him.
You don't mention whether you are a reader
of The Urantia Book, but I hope you
are. This website is dedicated to the teachings
of this marvelous book of modern revelation to
mankind, and especially to the life and
teachings of Jesus. Part IV of
the book is a complete retelling of Jesus'
life, with all the missing pieces filled in.
One of the things that Jesus told us about
the afterlife is that there are "many mansions"
in the life after death, "worlds of light where
the Father of spirit souls has provided many
delightful stopping-places for those who are
Jesus also said: "Life in the Father's
eternal creation is not an endless rest of
idleness and selfish ease but rather a
ceaseless progression in grace, truth, and
glory. Each of the many, many stations in my
Father's house is a stopping place, a life
designed to prepare you for the next one ahead.
And so will the children of light go on from
glory to glory until they attain the divine
estate wherein they are spiritually perfected
even as the Father is perfect in all things."
The Urantia Book teaches us that
relationship with others is the most important
thing we do here on earth; our relationships
are so important that they have "survival
value"; in other words, they survive our
earthly life, and we continue them in heaven:
and the relationships between personalities are
never scaffolding; mortal memory of personality
relationships has cosmic value and will
persist. On the mansion worlds you will know
and be known, and more, you will remember, and
be remembered by, your onetime associates in
the short but intriguing life on Urantia."
So you can rest assured that you and your
boyfriend will meet again in the worlds beyond.
He'll know you and you'll know him; your
relationship will continue.
Please feel free to explore this site for
more information about the life after death.
Here are some links that you will likely find
Seven Mansion Worlds
After Death Magazine
Again, I want to tell you how sorry I am
that you've lost your friend ... but I hope
that you can be cheered, knowing that he likely
IS waiting for you there, and that you'll be
able to take up your relationship from where it
was interrupted by his untimely passing.
Thanks again for writing, and I hope that
you'll write back again if you have other
questions of a spiritual nature. I hope that
this reply has been helpful...I will hold you
in prayer this day, asking God to bring you
peace and comfort.