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Hi All,
Again, I have to re-iterate - this is an internet forum...we are faceless folks here. I know that none of us gets up in the morning intent on offending anyone, but on a forum such as this, it is very easy to get one's feathers ruffled by mere words, which is all we have here. Understand that our words carry undue weight here, and think before posting.
If we were in the presence of the others, it would be easy to see facial clues, body language, a smile, a frown...we would be better able to gauge the true intent of the speaker. We don't have that here. So, it is important to make the positive assumption that we are all here for the same purpose - the discussion of The Urantia Book. And inherent in that is the embracing of all - especially newcomers. Until we know for sure that someone is against us, or spoiling for a fight, we should assume that they are a kindred spirit. They may not be here for deep discussion, they may only be here for fellowship and for the joy of talking with and encouraging other reader/believers...for airing out what's on their mind - and that's enough of a reason to be here.
This board should be a friendly, welcoming place for all...please be careful with negative assumptions.
And for the newcomers - some of the folks on this discussion board are very seasoned, long-time readers who serve by teaching. They do this very naturally, and not by assignment or request. They enjoy deep discussion, detailed references, scholarly argument. This is very important, especially in light of the fact that our posts are subject to searches by non-readers who may find them instructive, and an avenue of introduction to The Urantia Book. There are several here who fit that description. And some can be both scholarly AND lighthearted. That being said, our forum members are no better and no worse than any other believer when all is said and done. We are all different personalities, and our interests and abilities are different. Everyone is valued here...
JJ, you are right - it is so important that we learn to get along with each other. I am glad that you have decided to let this slide, and not take things personally.
And Bonita, please let it slide also...let's evaporate any rancor, and love one another, as our Master has taught us to do.
Love to All,
MaryJo
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keep it coming....I think you are awesome and fun....think it will be great having ya around. Me, doing better.....really comes and goes kind of thing at this point....but trying..and with my U.B. friends up here...can't stay down for long. I suppose I will have to fight some of the moods....sorry if I ever come off grouchy...I will usually figure it out and correct the post...but just in case....sorry in advance.
His performance was amazing as always. I made a new U.B. friend...we have a ton in common...and she is really happy upbeat and playful....she is awesome...I don't feel so alone in my situation now. Wow do U.B. readers rock! One of the better memories for me...that is for sure. 
