Fri, May 25, 2012
Good Friends, Good Times, Good Health: Cultivating Quality Friendships
By
Jeannie Ward
May 22, 2012
"True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost." Charles Caleb Colton
When
it comes to friendship, "enriching, healthy, loving and meaningful" are
words that come to mind for me. Truthfully, creating meaningful,
lasting friendships has been a big challenge for me, for most of my
life. I've spent more time than I care to admit, wondering if there was
something about me, something wrong with me, that hindered me in
developing and growing quality, loving, supportive and healthy
friendships. I have found comfort in recognizing that my childhood, in
many ways, had a huge impact on my ability to establish, nurture and
grow healthy, loving and lasting relationships.
See "Link to External Source Article" below to read further.
...there's an informative questionnaire which serves to help you assess your friendships' health, too.
Friendship played a big part in Jesus' life, and friendship is one of the key elements of a successful "art of living" philosophy. For a comprehensive look at Urantia Book teachings about Friendship, please see THIS LINK.
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Fri, June 17, 2011
USA misses Top 10 countries in 'happiness rating'
By
Cathy Lynn Grossman
Is happiness really all that? It depends on how you define it. The business writers at 24/7 Wall St.
have modified a new "Better Life" index, with its multiple measures
including "life satisfaction," and added their own economic and
political measures. The result is a Top 10 happy countries list that
doesn't include the USA. ...Given
our current malaise about the economy, and our long-standing sense of
rampant individualism, is it any surprise that an index that gives high
scores for the cultural concept of a social safety net leaves the USA
out of the top ranking? Among the top findings, folks doing the happiness dance live in places where they...: ...
Get loads of social services without having to work too hard. Having
abundant natural resources, a thriving services sector and a fairly
homogeneous population helps as well.
... support employment, education and make health care widely available. ... have a good balance of work and leisure time.
So
that explains why you see No. 6 Sweden where folks don't seem to break a
sweat, but not the workaholic folks of Japan and South Korea. Economics
and instability rule out Latin America, southern and eastern Europe,
Asia and much of the Middle East. The out-lier here is Israel, weighing
in at No. 9 on the strength of its score for "household wealth" despite
some fairly low life satisfaction scores. So who's happiest? The Ten Countries With The Happiest People,
"most of which have bought and paid for prosperity because their
economies have allowed them to do so," begins with No. 1 Denmark and
continues in order of rank to Canada, Norway, Australia, the
Netherlands, Sweden, Switzerland, Finland, Israel and Austria. The
Danish are always topping such lists despite not having the highest
scores in many areas. However, they note, this is a country where folks
all think someone's got their back: Danes
have one of the strongest senses of friendship and community, with 97
percent reporting they had someone other than a family member that they
could rely on. Danish culture and government policy is one of the most
leisure-friendly. Denmark's citizens spend more than 16 hours each week
on leisure time, the second-highest rate in the OECD. The government
also subsidizes a full year of maternity leave.
Note -- no mention of religion or spirituality here. Does God or faith or spirituality have an influence on happiness? ***************** Please click HERE to access the complete article And for a thumbnail look at Urantia Book teachings on happiness, click HERE
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Thu, December 09, 2010
An evanglist takes issue with findings on a religion study
By
Sammy Tippit
USA (MNN) ? A study published this week in the journal American Sociological Review
hints that church is a social club after all.
Rather than satisfaction in an
interpersonal relationship with God, the
researchers think that the happy people
they found in church congregations may be finding their fulfillment from closer
ties to earthly neighbors.
The report said that personal
happiness couldn't be attributed to individual prayer, strength of belief, or an
understanding of God's love and presence. Instead, researchers found empirical survey data showing that the
happier a person reported themselves to be, the more close friends they had in
their religious congregations.
Evangelist Sammy Tippit
summarized the findings from the article this way: "People who have 10 more friends in church
are happier than people who have 10 or more friends in the secular world, but
it doesn't have anything to do with God. "
He also notes that the
researchers don't make a distinction between faith as a way of "being" and religion
as a way of "acting." Or perhaps they made too clear a distinction and
compartmentalized friendships from the ethos that governs the motivation behind
how people live their values.
Tippit says, "The people who have
10 or more close friends in church are the people who are the more involved,
the people who have been walking with Christ the longest. The people who have the strongest faith are
the ones who are the most involved. So
how do you separate their faith from their friendships? "
It's more than the social ties
that create this bond being explained by the report. "The tie that binds us is the Spirit that
dwells within us. The study has taken
some tangible things, made some great observations, and then drawn conclusions
about the INtangible. They got out of
the realm of science and into the realm of personal bias."
How does a believer explain that bond found in a church halfway across the world in sweet worship? How can you quantify a relationship created
by instant closeness? The Gospel calls it Love, as in, "By this
all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another."
****************** Please click on "external source" (below) for the complete article. Perhaps the sense of society, friendship and belonging that one finds in a religious group is nothing more nor less than the experience of the Brotherhood of man. And contrary to what Mr Tippit has said in the above article, it really does have everything to do with God, in my opinion... Please see our topical study on the Brotherhood HERE
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